I have a friend who considers himself an LGBTQ+ ally, but he tells others about my orientation without asking, flirts even though I find it unpleasant, and sends explicit queer content. How do I know when it's time to set boundaries, and what should I do if talking doesn't help?

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A reader question answered by our editors: I have a friend who considers himself an LGBTQ+ ally, but he tells others about my orientation without asking, flirts even though I find it unpleasant, and sends explicit queer content. How do I know when it's time to set boundaries, and what should I do if talking doesn't help?