Meaning of Kegel's exercise

For years, some women and even men have told me that a firm member is much more important than a large member.

One woman said, " The most important member is his firmness. Nobody cares about the size! Show me a member who's been hard as a stone for a long time, and I'll come back to him again and again.”

Another said, " A true, firm member is the most exciting sign of all available, simply because it shows how much a man wants me " .