After antidepressants I lost my desire, and it hasn't returned. Is this even normal? I feel like doctors aren't listening to me.

Yes, you are not alone: in the UK, ten people with similar experiences were surveyed, and this condition is called Post-SSRI Sexual Dysfunction (PSSD). Participants reported that doctors often dismissed them with phrases like 'it'll pass' or 'it's all in your head,' making them feel rejected. Importantly, PSSD is a recognized medical fact, not a fantasy, and doctors are increasingly acknowledging this. If your doctor isn't listening, it's worth seeking a specialist who takes it seriously, and psychotherapy may also help—it doesn't fix the chemical imbalance but teaches you to live with changes and find new ways of intimacy. There is no complete cure for PSSD yet, but acknowledging the problem and getting support is a big step.